Christopher, this will vary due to projectile weight, velocity and pistol barrel length and weight. As a rule of thumb, expect the 44Mag to recoil 50% more. For a couple of fairly hot ( but within Hornady specification) loads, a 32 oz .357 revolver with 158 gr. @ 1250 fps. generates 11.78 ft/lbs recoil. A 48 oz. .44 mag with 240 gr. @ 1400 fps. generates 21.5 ft/lbs recoil.

much lighter than a 44Mag you can also shoot the less expensive 38 special rounds for even less recoil

I'd say from my experience that the .357 is lighter recoiling than the .44. Hope that helps, sir. Remember to select a best answer.